Your Charismatic Male Leader Will Always Disappoint You: A History of Utopian Communities with Monica Mercado

Historian Monica Mercado joins me to explore nineteenth-century utopian communities — from the polyamorous, silverware-making Oneida community to the celibate, achingly chic Shakers — and what draws people to radical experiments in communal living then and now. We get into charismatic male leaders who will always, always disappoint you, why the Shakers are having a moment (three members and counting!), and how nuns, queer culture, and Oprah Winfrey might all be connected. Spoiler alert: building a better world is not easy, but someone has to do it.

Timestamps

00:00 – Intro: TikTok nuns, convent summers, and the desire to leave society

05:59 – Setting the scene: the “burned over district” and 19th-century utopian movements in upstate New York

11:18 – Oneida: complex marriage, male continence, and why the silverware in your drawer might have a complicated history

21:10 – Where Oneida goes wrong: eugenics, the government crackdown, and the charismatic male leader who runs away to Canada

27:23 – Enter the Shakers: celibacy, beautiful furniture, and a female founder who said God is both woman and man

36:18 – The last Shakers: Brother Arnold, Sister June, and the new member who just boosted global numbers to three

48:07 – Nuns now: who’s joining convents today, student loan debt as a barrier to entry, and the old nuns making protest signs on Facebook

1:06:24 – Final thoughts: what utopian communities teach us about actually building (not just imagining) a better world

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Transcript

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